The month of January goes one of two ways:
- You throw yourself into New Year’s resolutions, planning, etc.
- The holidays and the cold weather have drained you and the thought of resolutions makes you want to crawl into a hole
Typically a new year is a time for you to reflect and create new goals. But why put all this pressure on ourselves to implement these changes up front? Why not create a year of resolutions, aspirations and new fun things you want to experience?
For the last two months, I’ve been listening to Gretchen Rubin‘s podcast Happier that she does weekly with her sister Elizabeth. Among other pearls of wisdom, each episode starts with a try this at home tip: a digestible idea to help you create better habits. A few, liking setting an alarm for bedtime, resonated with me. They’re also super easy and fun to try.
As I planned for the new year, I remember the podcast, these tips and recognized that a list of lofty resolutions wasn’t going to work for me. Actually, it never has.
So instead, I started focusing on a couple of things that hopefully will male me a little happier and a little healthier. So far for the month of January, I’ve implemented:
- Packing breakfast and lunch daily
- Tracking workouts at the gym
- Walking during one call a day at work
- Writing blog posts while at the gym (eliminates the pressure to find another time to write)
Now for some ideas I thought were good but aren’t sticking:
- Getting up 30 minute earlier to do yoga.
- Going to bed at a consistent time
- Taking a lunch break to read
I’m not totally giving up on these ideas but need to look at them differently and assess if now is the right timing. For example, instead of a full yoga class in the morning, maybe it’s ten mindful minutes of stretching. These smaller changes do have a bigger impact and absolutely remove the pressure of trying to do too much.
I can only speak for myself here: pressure doesn’t help me but it might work for you. We all need to meet ourselves where we are. Nobody needs more pressure or stress. Certainly, I’m not perfect, but these smaller changes have helped my mood. overall well-being and happiness.
What are your thoughts on New Years resolutions? Any helpful tips to share on how to implement new rituals or habits?